
Journalist Melinda Blau has written thirteen books, including the best-selling Baby Whisperer series, and more than eighty magazine articles. Her work has appeared on the Op-Ed page of the New York Times and in New York, American Health, The Utne Reader, and The Psychotherapy Networker. Among other awards, her “New Family” column in Child earned “Excellence in Media” from the Association of Marriage and Family Therapy and “Best in Category (Magazine)” in the American Legion Auxiliary’s Heart of America competition. She currently blogs for Psychology Today, Shareable, and More magazines as well as her own websites, consequentialstrangers.com and motheru.com.
We are living at a time when digital technologies allow us to more easily extend the boundaries of our social circles than we could in the past. This book recognizes that reality—and the fact that life is too complex to depend solely on the people closest to us.Consequential Strangers examines the vast, unsung array of everyday people, on and off the Internet, who skirt the edges of our social circles and who have a surprisingly profound impact on our success, happiness, and health.In collaboration with psychologist Karen L. Fingerman, who coined the term “consequential strangers,” I drew from a wealth of social science research and more than two hundred interviews to underscore the importance of this wider social terrain.Unlike people closest to us, who know what we know, consequential strangers expand our horizons. They can lead us to new ideas and allow us to stretch ourselves. They offer information and resources we simply can’t get from loved ones. While not all of these lesser relations are good to us or for us, the vast majority are–among other reasons because we can usually walk away when they’re not.

Melinda Blau and Karen L. Fingerman, Ph DConsequential Strangers: Turning Everyday Connections Into Life-Changing Moments W. W. Norton 304 pages, 8 1/4 x 5 1/2 inches ISBN 978 0393338454
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